The idea that you can use Universal Law of Attraction to change other people is one of the biggest misconceptions. Law of Attraction creates YOUR reality in response to YOUR thoughts.
It is not a magic tool that you can use to make other people line up with your thinking. Moreover, you haven’t realized your life purpose if you are in the mindset that your problems are somehow the fault of others.
Can your understanding of Law of Attraction result in a happier marriage for you? Of course it can. However, you will do this by changing your outlook not by changing your spouse.
If you’re running around thinking angry thoughts, it is highly likely that your negative vibration will rub off on your partner. And vice versa. So, although you cannot change him or her, there is enormous benefit in changing what you give your attention to.
If you continue to focus on the negatives and expect your partner to make changes in order to make you feel better, you WILL be disappointed. Remember, you are in control of how you feel. You may want to read my Law of Attraction Relationship Advice article for practical guidance on this matter, but I’ll offer an example here.
Sally has been married for 6 years, but divorce seems imminent. When she was dating Joe, everything was great. They laughed at each other’s jokes, had romantic dinner dates, called each other during the work day, had a phenomenal sex life, and seemed to want the same things for their future. However, nothing is the same now.
Sally feels neglected because her husband spends more time at work than at home. She believes that he is not dedicated enough to his family because they spend so little quality time together. She is so angry about the lack of romance that she withholds sex and yells at her husband for being so insensitive. She has put on weight since having children and doesn’t like the way Joe looks at her body.
So, how can Sally use an understanding of the Universal Laws of Attraction to turn their relationship around? She can start with this simple piece of relationship advice– change your thoughts about the relationship (and about your partner).