Well...men tend to make these kinds of mistakes when they think they can afford to. If a guy was fairly sure that indecisiveness would result in getting dumped, he would be more decisive if he wanted to keep his partner.Notice, I said *if* he wants to keep her/him.If a guy doesn't want to be with you or doesn't want to grow the relationship into something more meaningful, he doesn't always want to say it. If he likes you as a person or likes the sex, or just doesn't want to be perceived as the bad guy, he'll often go along with things until they'll require some real effort, and then he'll shut down.So it's important to keep the lines of communication open. I don't mean nagging...just making it clear what you want and what you don't at the beginning, and if something doesn't seem right to you along the way, speak up about it. Some women with trust issues take this too far by berating the man and accusing him before he's done anything wrong. This isn't the way to get him closer.The way to go about things is to, like I said, be clear, and if he's not directing it someplace you want to go, just step off the ride.