Jeffrey Hall, assistant professor of communication studies in University of Kansas conducted a study on 5,100 people, their flirting styles and method of communication. Hall said said that knowing how you communicate attraction says something about past dating experiences. Being aware of mistakes in past romantic relationships can help improve courtship in the future.

Some people initiate communication while others wait for someone to flirt with them first. Knowing the distinctions to your approach to communication can help you manage relationships. Hall said there are basically 5 flirting styles: playful, sincere, physical and traditional.

Playful flirts are meant to boost one’s ego and self esteem. People in this category don’t usually have long lasting relationships that are meaningful. Physical flirting can often hasten a relationship’s development by expressing sexual interest to a possible partner. People in this category have more emotional connection and sexual chemistry.

Traditional flirts believe men should make the first move and women take the passive role. Couples who prefer this style are more likely to enjoy more intimate dating arrangements. Hall said that the early stages of a developing relationship is important for a relationship’s success. That includes relationships that proceed to marriage.